How to make textures for custom objects?

Hi, I followed a tutorial and made a house with 3ds max 7. And I used this texture for everything (_c; _de; and _deb):
http://i58.tinypic.com/2wcr3eu.png

Then I got this:
http://i62.tinypic.com/2wrkbic.jpg

http://i60.tinypic.com/2a9zds7.jpg

(ingame too)
I tried changing the _deb to to this:
http://i61.tinypic.com/5ze9z7.png

but I got the same result.

After this I tried it with this combination (I picked the textures from an original bf2 object):

http://i61.tinypic.com/30hvq6u.jpg

and I got it working:

http://i62.tinypic.com/2jes4lh.jpg


I hope you can see the pictures.
How can I make my own textures (same like the original object's textures) for my object?
I searched a lot, but I got nothing. I also tried the nvidia atlas texture tool(?), but I couldn't use it.

Thank you, and sorry for my bad english.